I'm a Chinese male with bad hair issues. Dry and bouncy thick?

Once my hair dries after wash. My hair is ends up "straight, dry and bouncy thick" to be "parted, flat and loose", how am I able to achieve it?

I am literally unable to style my rebellious hair naturally. Please help hair experts. ;-)

Thank you!

I'm a Chinese male with bad hair issues. Dry and bouncy thick?

Try using bedhead products; the control freak line or manipulator (http://www.tigihaircare.com/uk/products/...

And if you were talking about putting a part in your hair, please don't. It either always looks really nerdy or like a greasy stalker man.